Most people in the world walk through life in a walking daze.
Don’t know what they want, are in life – and they are being tinkered by people that do know.
Common misconceptions – what do people think gets girls? – money
Lover – Provider distinction
Money is not helping you, it kills it. Even if you hooked up once you get her to your mansion, similar…
If you get too “sperm-wared” that is a “self-fulfilling prophecy waiting to happen”.
Always better to start as lover and then maybe move to provider. ALWAYS start off as lover. People tend to only exert as much energy as they have to – evolutionarily.