Burn the first set means to escalate hard and get blown out with the first good set of the night to set the frame early on that you aren’t going to waste any time tonight. The first good set is also your first opportunity to get some escalation practice and warm up physically.
Blow it Up, Have Nothing
“I don’t need to dress up, Vicky is coming next week”
I would rather have nothing. Keeping women on reserve is hurting you. Call those numbers. Ask that girl you met to come over. Find out what is going on right now. If you can’t call her right now that means you are scared to find out the truth. That she doesn’t like you.
When you rely on phone numbers or women you are “working on closing” you miss out on all the new opportunities. You may still go out but you stop trying as hard with new girls. You drink beer and wait around for a call from your fuck-buddy. You get one number and then dream about calling her for the rest of the night.
Your ego is satisfied by this one woman you supposedly have in the bag. Until the relationship reaches a conclusion, good or bad, you are only wasting your time. For your own benefit, blow these girls out and start again fresh.
It’s much better to have nothing than these fantasy girls you are supposedly working on. You always do better when you have nothing in reserve. I would rather have nothing than a fantasy.
Having nothing when you go out makes you hungry.