) Master Your Emotions. Be the island, not the waves. The Alpha Man provides a safe haven for the women in his life. Be a protector: demonstrate the ability to be a source of physical and emotional security. Women are attracted to stable, secure men and are repelled by neediness and insecurity. Never lose your cool (the James Bond mindset). Self-control is a hallmark of the Alpha Man. Deflect the traps and games that women will often try to engage you in as a means of “testing” you. Mastering one’s emotions begins with confidence and clarity of purpose.
2) Master the Art of Attraction. Elicit attraction, not affection. Don’t just be a “friend” to women; be sexually desirable first and foremost. Know how to escalate the relationship while you remain secure in your sexuality and masculinity. Often, the women who are most resistant to men are the ones who wish a man would sweep them off their feet and seduce them. The Alpha Man understands how to do so, by using the Rules of attraction to his advantage.
3) Be Unique in Your Approach, Style and Actions. Become a source of fascination to people by presenting yourself as an original: a unique individual who doesn’t think and act like the herd. When you seem typical, women are inclined to feel a typical, lukewarm emotional reaction towards you. Incorporate new details into your style and wardrobe so that you command attention. Lead and project a lifestyle that is exciting and unpredictable. Being original in these ways is a clear indicator of confidence and high self-esteem.
