I’ve told this story before but you may not have heard it.
It’s as true as my heart and been a PIVOTAL, prime-mover in my journey.
When I first started going out..
To parties, clubs, bars or even just normal hangouts with groups of people..
I fucking sucked at talking with girls.
I could talk a *decent* (at best) game with the dudes but put a girl in front of me – I don’t care if she was fat, ugly or (dear god) BOTH – at it I fucking sucked.
I had no idea how to LEAD a conversation. Truthfully, I didn’t even know you could do that, or that the other person could possibly *want* you to do that.
Imagine how excited I was when I found out girls actually WANT you to take the conversation where you want so long as you do it unapologetically and nonchalantly.
I had no idea how to create a connection with someone.
Imagine how stoked I was when I learned there were specific tools, techniques, fuck, even formulas, to do that.
